connect to remote mysql server with php

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hello,
i need to connect a mysql database which is on a remote PC using PHP or smt like that
both PC are connected to internet
i use xampp and win7

i know that i will use

mysql_connect("remote PC's IP", "login name set up for my PC", "login password");

additionally, remote PC should give permission to me to read and write its mysql database.
i did this:

CREATE USER 'remote'@'%' IDENTIFIED BY '***';

GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON * . * TO 'remote'@'%' IDENTIFIED BY '***' WITH GRANT OPTION MAX_QUERIES_PER_HOUR 0 MAX_CONNECTIONS_PER_HOUR 0 MAX_UPDATES_PER_HOUR 0 MAX_USER_CONNECTIONS 0 ;

CREATE DATABASE IF NOT EXISTS `remote` ;

GRANT ALL PRIVILEGES ON `remote` . * TO 'remote'@'%';

but it was not fixed. mysql_connect("remote PC's IP", "login name set up for my PC", "login password") gives error:

Warning: mysql_pconnect() [function.mysql-pconnect]: Can't connect to MySQL server on '79.***.***.***' (10060) in C:\xampp\htdocs\baglan.php on line 3
Can't connect to MySQL server on '79.***.***.*** (10060)

could you please help me about this issue


hello again

i did what you said but no luck...
in my database i have a privilege as

User Host Password Global privileges Grant
mustafa % some pswd all privileges yes

and i add an inbound rule to windows firewall for port 10060 and 3306

any advice...