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My spidey sense it tingling, and it tells me that you are averse to conflict. If so, you may be getting in your own way...

A straight forward way to address this is to state your feelings, without ambiguity. Be sure to include any empathetic feelings you have for them, and validate their position as much as you can. Then, gain & maintain credibility on this issue by disallowing satisfaction for them in the future each time that they are discourteous to the feelings you made clear.

I know, it's easier said than done...
cmkrnl. I win.

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