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And this is supposedly a world leader? They are a joke.
Have a read on the "Old New Thing" blog to see how much effort they spend on the OS. Doesn't mean they do that with each product ofcourse
While I agree that the AmigaOS is still the superiour product, it proved to be too complex for a casual user. OS/2 warp died because no-one wanted to move to a weird platform, and IBM did not want to make it compatible with Windows apps. Soo, we kinda stuck with a Windows.
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I think at some point we have all experienced it. The Dilbert of the Day calendar the Sunday just gone is horribly relevant to the beast I am working on at the moment. I swear Scott Adams is on the project I am. The best part is a Consultant who is over seeing the project has taken it and placed it on the software leads desk!
Just wanted to know from experienced parents if Son or daughter dynamics change as they grow up.
I have a daughter, who is now 11 spends more time with her friends and in social media. She comes to me or have a serious talk only when she has a problem that needs to be solved or she gets bored with internet. The only good time I really have daily is the 15 mins drive to drop her at school. That's when she jokes, makes fun or torments to upgrade the car.
Do boys too behave in a similar manner?
Too much of good is bad,mix some evil in it
Nope. From the onset of puberty to around age 25, boys just grunt. Occasionally they will whine, moan, or storm off in a huff. Painting the bedroom black is also an option. Conversation is not a priority for them, particularly with old folk (i.e. anyone over 25) who clearly will not be able to understand them in any way so why bother.
Fortunately, they do grow out of being little sh*ts, but it takes time ...
You do realise that on their 18th birthday you can dump all their stuff outside the house and change the locks?
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The only const in relation to kids is the change - they differ from one another (and even looks similar you are doomed if try the same approach). They also change over time (sometime several times the same day)...
I have 4 of them and can drive me crazy within 2 seconds they open their eyes...
"The greatest enemy of knowledge is not ignorance, it is the illusion of knowledge". Stephen Hawking, 1942- 2018
Having 3 children, daughter 26, son 22 and son 18, I can confirm that between the ages of 12 and 23 that in their eyes I have become a blithering idiot who has no valid opinion and only lives to torment their lives.
My daughter has fully come out of this and a pleasant mother to my grandson.
My oldest son is starting to come around gradually (He even cleaned his room without being asked last week!)
As for the youngest, he is beginning to realize that moving out would be terrible for him at this time. (He's the son we had to check into a mental health facility for depression a couple of years ago. He seems to be doing better now.)
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Yes, the dynamics do change. Our "kids" are in the 30s and 40s now. They were OK until the preteen/teen years. Then they morphed into some sort of alien creatures. Then they grew up, entered the real world, and we are closer than I ever imagined. And I was the same way with my parents.
The key is crystal clarity that you offer unconditional love to them as individuals. That the only thing that is required to have that love is that they exist. Good or bad, you will never desert them or disown them. Saying "no", however, is often the best sign of love in a situation. My kids as teens would get so frustrated with me being immovable on certain things, but they understood that, whether I would later be proven right or wrong, I was acting to protect them while they were still minors.
Girls are usually a different dynamic in the implementation. You can talk sternly to boys, and they usually get it. Talk sternly to your little girl, and the tears flow! At first, earnestly, because a girl's feelings and emotions are different and delicate. Then they learn how to use tears as a weapon.
Adapt to the unique character of each child, be patient, and they will eventually return to being human.
Oh, and no matter how strong the urge, do not follow the animal kingdom (which sometimes eats their young) or give them away. If the latter, whoever takes them will just bring them back.