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Sander Rossel wrote: I'm thinking of submitting the code to GitHub as an article
FTFY
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Was thinking about that as well, but I'm polling if people need this first 
Could be a nice introduction to extending ASP.NET Core tag helpers 
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Sander Rossel wrote: polling if people need this first
When did that ever have anything to do with it. 
I wrote my articles mainly for the feedback.
With 14 million users there's bound to be someone that needs it!
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I'm a busy man nowadays, I'm juggling a couple of software projects and writing a-plenty on the side (just not for CP).
I have to pick my battles carefully 
Jörgen Andersson wrote: With 14 million users there's bound to be someone that needs it!
I guess you're right about that though!
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Seems like excellent material for an article, here !
sheers, Bill
«One day it will have to be officially admitted that what we have christened reality is an even greater illusion than the world of dreams.» Salvador Dali
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Pah!
you are 10 days late man!
Forget Razor, forget Vue, use Blazor Web Assembly!
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So much truth in your words... 
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at least they tend to be more funny when there is.
With all of the "marriage sucks" jokes lately (a lot of them by one specific member) it makes me wonder why do people bother getting married? Why do people keep getting married if it's such torture?
I've never understood that. Marriage sucks jokes have been around forever yet people keep getting married.
If your marriage is like all of these jokes, I suggest you go to counseling. Marriage does not have to be and should not be torture. It should be the best relationship you ever have. I suppose for some of you, maybe it is torture AND the best relationship at the same time.
Social Media - A platform that makes it easier for the crazies to find each other.
Everyone is born right handed. Only the strongest overcome it.
Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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Marriage is a religious notion, not biological. Marriage does suck. It has its benefits, but there are more cons than pros, IMHO.
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I got this advice from a friend just before getting married: Marriage solves a lot of problems that didn’t exist before. 😀
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Sure, it's religious. It's also political, which is an even better reason to avoid it. But it's also biological: albatross (amongst many other species) mate for life.
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You can "mate for life" without being married.
Maybe not in all countries where marriage is still holy and you have to marry before you can look at a woman, but in the west you can mate all you want without being married
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Slacker007 wrote: there are more cons than pros,
When done right, marriage is the best way to raise children. Religious or not, biological or not, it has been proven to be the best way to raise kids and to stabilize society.
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Everyone is born right handed. Only the strongest overcome it.
Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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Because you can't raise children when you're not married?
You can live together and do all the things you'd do when you were married without actually being married.
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Sander Rossel wrote: Because you can't raise children when you're not married?
Obviously not.
Sander Rossel wrote: You can live together and do all the things you'd do when you were married without actually being married.
That is a true statement.
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Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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ZurdoDev wrote: Obviously not.
I can't tell if you're joking or being serious 
I'd assume you're joking, but we've proven to have completely different viewpoints and beliefs that aren't always compatible before
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You implied that I had said you can't raise children unless you're married. I'm shocked you would think I'd say something like that or that ANYONE would say something like that. Of course you can raise children even if you're not married. I don't think you read my post very clearly.
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Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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You're right, you said "the best way" and not "the only way".
I still don't think it matters whether you're married or not though, but that's another matter 
ZurdoDev wrote: I'm shocked you would think I'd say something like that or that ANYONE would say something like that.
I think there are countries where you get jail time or worse when you get kids without being married.
You'll at least be forced to marry (even when it's from rape, just to illustrate the seriousness of the matter).
And it's not even that long ago that his was also the norm in our countries.
Actually, I live in a bible belt where some people still frown upon getting children without being married or even living together without being married.
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Sander Rossel wrote: You're right, you said "the best way" and not "the only way".
Correct.
Sander Rossel wrote: I still don't think it matters whether you're married or not though
Yes, I know that about you.
Sander Rossel wrote: I think there are countries where you get jail time or worse when you get kids without being married.
Extremes are rarely a good thing.
Sander Rossel wrote: where some people still frown upon getting children without being married or even living together without being married.
Luckily, that's not just in the Bible belt. But it is a fading practice, unfortunately.
Social Media - A platform that makes it easier for the crazies to find each other.
Everyone is born right handed. Only the strongest overcome it.
Fight for left-handed rights and hand equality.
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Sander Rossel wrote: You're right, you said "the best way" and not "the only way".
I still don't think it matters whether you're married or not though, but that's another matter 
This is much too complex a subject to be covered in a short post, but I'll try...
The problem is that, as the Chinese ideogram for "mother" hints, everyone has a mother. Who the father is, is less certain.
Shorn of the religious part, traditional (m-f) marriage is an attempt to balance between the obligation of the man to support his children and his fear (in the days before genetic testing) that his wife's children are not his, and that therefore he is supporting some freeloader's children. In marriage, a man agrees to support all children born in the marriage, and the woman agrees that her children will only be sired by the man. OTOH, there was no obligation on the man to support children born out of wedlock.
This is one of the reasons why unfaithfulness by the woman was treated much more seriously than unfaithfulness by the man - it consisted possible fraud.
Freedom is the freedom to say that two plus two make four. If that is granted, all else follows.
-- 6079 Smith W.
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He didn't say you can't raise children while unmarried, he said doing so while married is the best way.
And he's right - when controlled for all other variables, a child being raised by two parents instead of one tends to do better.
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You are making the implicit assumption that the marriage is a happy and long-lasting one.
If the marriage keeps the parents quarreling and fighting all the time, leading to a brutal breakup with lawyers, lying from both sides and lots of hate, then lots of kids would prefer less close, but more friendly relationship between their parents.
Furthermore, you are making the implicit assumption that kids are brought up Western style: In a small core family, with the parents taking 90% of the responsibility for the upbringing. In lots of non-Western societies, kids are the responsibility of the entire village, with neighbours and grandparents and uncles and aunts and their friends having roles as extra parents. The kids eat with the others where they happen to be at meal time. Maybe they sleep where they happen to be at night. Lots of adults tell the kids what to do, and what not to do, teach them what it takes to solve tasks of various kinds, teach them history and traditions and their local culture.
To a large degree, it was that way on farms, even in Western Europe (maybe not in the US): A large farm could have dozens of people, maybe a hundred, if you count everyone associated with the farm, spanning three generations or more.
I am not sure that a tiny core family with two lone parents being fully responsible for the entire upbringing of the kids is so much better than the way it is done in other cultures. Maybe it is not too bad in the idealistic, happy, life long, resource rich and well educated family. But "the village model" is certainly more robust against all sorts of problems.
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Quote: You are making the implicit assumption that the marriage is a happy and long-lasting one.
Where did I do that?
Quote: In lots of non-Western societies, kids are the responsibility of the entire village, with neighbours and grandparents and uncles and aunts and their friends having roles as extra parents.
And those primitive lifestyles, while nice, have produced very little of value to the world.
Quote: . Lots of adults tell the kids what to do, and what not to do, teach them what it takes to solve tasks of various kinds, teach them history and traditions and their local culture.
And that's why they remain primitive and useless to the world. The next breakthrough isn't coming from the non-western village where the children run around being "educated" about the sun god of whatever the local culture is ...
Quote: with two lone parents
You keep saying this, I never said anything about "two lone parents", I said "two parents instead of one", not "two parents instead of five". I mean, there were only two sentences in my post and you managed to misread both of them? If I had written a third sentence you may have gotten a hat-trick
And what I said is still true, two parents tend to produce more successful children than one parent, and married couples tend to produce more successful children than non-married couples.
The simplest way to halve a child's lifetime earnings is to have the parents divorce/never live together. There's a lot of factors in that, but they mostly boil down to "less time, money and effort goes into the child after a divorce".
It is not unusual, for example, for a divorce to cost a man more than the complete educational cost of a child to age 18. That is money that would have gone towards the child, going to the lawyers instead.
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