Instead of using Menu Control, you should use Repeater Control. So that you can use CSS and JS as well.
Save your menu detail in table. Retrieve data and bind Repeater Control line DataTable.
<asp:Repeater ID="RepterDetails" runat="server">
<HeaderTemplate>
Menu
</HeaderTemplate>
<ItemTemplate>
<li> <a href='<%#Eval("link") %>'> <%#Eval("LinkText") %> </a> </li>
</ItemTemplate>
<FooterTemplate>
</FooterTemplate>
</asp:Repeater>