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Nah - he was just stringing you along.
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That's a bridge too far. Probably need to be taken down a peg or two.
"If you don't fail at least 90 percent of the time, you're not aiming high enough."
Alan Kay.
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Ah, pull your neck in!
Go on - saddle up and get outta here.
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Just curious ... was it comparable to
- John McLaughlin
- Al Di Meola
- Paco De Lucia
- Joe Pass
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I didn't realise any of them had a violent streak.
"the debugger doesn't tell me anything because this code compiles just fine" - random QA comment
"Facebook is where you tell lies to your friends. Twitter is where you tell the truth to strangers." - chriselst
"I don't drink any more... then again, I don't drink any less." - Mike Mullikins uncle
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jeron1 wrote: I didn't realise any of them had a violent streak. Nah, they don't go for that jazz...
It was broke, so I fixed it.
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Yeah, I can't see any of them taking acoutic and hitting you with it, except maybe on a Friday night in San Francisco...
"the debugger doesn't tell me anything because this code compiles just fine" - random QA comment
"Facebook is where you tell lies to your friends. Twitter is where you tell the truth to strangers." - chriselst
"I don't drink any more... then again, I don't drink any less." - Mike Mullikins uncle
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I'm kind of sober introvert person who is workaholic and too much technical.
First random co-workers passed obscene comments which I ignored as I was new joinee,
After that I'm being ostracized at workplace - going solo for lunch, snacks, coffee etc.
Again I ignored it, I felt tremendous mental trauma and somehow I completed 1 yrs at the organization as it is one of the top IT company.
- Now I resigned and random co-workers are defaming me.
- Even when I go for interview at random company some people wearing black clothes come and do sledging.
How do I deal with such situation.
I wonder what are the companies which hire remote C# developers globally?
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modified 16-Sep-16 7:25am.
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Are you a man or a woman ?
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The avatar suggests male.
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Well, "Bruce Jenner" suggests male, and we all know how that turned out.
".45 ACP - because shooting twice is just silly" - JSOP, 2010
- You can never have too much ammo - unless you're swimming, or on fire. - JSOP, 2010
- When you pry the gun from my cold dead hands, be careful - the barrel will be very hot. - JSOP, 2013
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Justin Bieber as well...
Anything that is unrelated to elephants is irrelephant Anonymous
- The problem with quotes on the internet is that you can never tell if they're genuine Winston Churchill, 1944
- I'd just like a chance to prove that money can't make me happy. Me, all the time
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well, Being a programmer I must describe myself as homo-sapien-sapien to not to change discussion topic
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I'm a man, masculine & married.
I follow Buddhism even if being Hindu.
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Nitin Sawant wrote: I'm a man, masculine
I think the jury's still out on that one...
".45 ACP - because shooting twice is just silly" - JSOP, 2010
- You can never have too much ammo - unless you're swimming, or on fire. - JSOP, 2010
- When you pry the gun from my cold dead hands, be careful - the barrel will be very hot. - JSOP, 2013
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Nitin Sawant wrote:
I follow Buddhism even if being Hindu.
Uhm, wouldn't that make you a Buddhist?
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and I follow the bacon and .
"the debugger doesn't tell me anything because this code compiles just fine" - random QA comment
"Facebook is where you tell lies to your friends. Twitter is where you tell the truth to strangers." - chriselst
"I don't drink any more... then again, I don't drink any less." - Mike Mullikins uncle
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Yes.
".45 ACP - because shooting twice is just silly" - JSOP, 2010
- You can never have too much ammo - unless you're swimming, or on fire. - JSOP, 2010
- When you pry the gun from my cold dead hands, be careful - the barrel will be very hot. - JSOP, 2013
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Nitin Sawant wrote: Even when I go for interview at random company some people wearing black clothes come and do sledging.
Don't go to interviews when it is snowing. This should prevent sledging.
If you resigned - and that's generally a silly thing to do if you don't have a job lined up - and the old company employees are following you around and bad mouthing you then you must have missed out a lot of detail in that description of what happened. Once you are out of there, most people just count it as a win to them - for them to continue after that you have clearly really annoyed someone!
Think about it: the chances are that you are imagining a lot of this - how would employees of "Company A" know you have an interview at "Company B"?
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There is no snowing in my country
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Then what are they sledging on? It doesn't work on sand - there is too much friction - and the sledge tends to sink on water.
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While I wouldn't say imagining I'd go with inflating/misinterpreting. My wife tend to do this a lot. She reads in too much focuses on the wrong thing etc. She see so much drama and intrigue and yadda yadda where I don't see anything and she tends to get hung up on those things. She gets stressed and finds it difficult to progress when I'm here questioning how can I do so good while being ignorant?
OP sorry I can't come with any advice than maybe to try and just let things go and maybe focus on communication skills and getting a good read on the social environment. I'm not going to say you imagine things but odds are that you might read a bit more in to hit than there is, maybe. Good luck.
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You know, in most countries, that kind of crap usually doesn't happen. There might be some friendly humor when you're new, but certainly not obscene comments.
Perhaps you should think about whether you're happy with the culture of your country.
Marc
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I assume you are from India. And I am little surprised you had to go through this. It seems some pages of the incident is missing.
Nitin Sawant wrote: First random co-workers passed obscene comments which I ignored as I was new joinee,
Define Obscene? I am sure it was some humor or jokes which you don't like.
Nitin Sawant wrote: After that I'm being ostracized at workplace - going solo for lunch, snacks, coffee etc.
Are they deliberately avoiding you or they assume you are a loner. Did you make any attempt to join them? Lets say made an initiative to forge some small talk.
Nitin Sawant wrote: Again I ignored it, I felt tremendous mental trauma and somehow I completed 1 yrs at the organization as it is one of the top IT company.
If this you claim is correct that its the top IT company, what did you do to address this issue. Sid you talk with your lead or manager ???
Nitin Sawant wrote: Now I resigned and random co-workers are defaming me.
what does defaming means? you have resigned and then who are these co-workers?
Nitin Sawant wrote: Even when I go for interview at random company some people wearing black clothes come and do sledging.
This is total BS. Its hard to believe that people are making effort to track you and make your life hard.
cheers,
Super
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Too much of good is bad,mix some evil in it
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I'm not sure whether Asperger is a western world phenomenon or world-wide, but it COULD sound like the OP has got a touch of that. That could explain a lot of things actually...
Anything that is unrelated to elephants is irrelephant Anonymous
- The problem with quotes on the internet is that you can never tell if they're genuine Winston Churchill, 1944
- I'd just like a chance to prove that money can't make me happy. Me, all the time
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