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GeneralI share completely equally in all of your frustrations Pin
Ennis Ray Lynch, Jr.20-Nov-13 4:56
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Ennis Ray Lynch, Jr. wrote:
the only way to get good leads from job boards is to proactively call yourself they day they are posted.


Great advice. I'll do that.

Ennis Ray Lynch, Jr. wrote:
Get over the notion of working remote,


I agree, the biggest problem with that is that I'm rather connected to this and the neighboring communities - I'm involved with some things (not programming related) that require daytime meetings every week or two. Additionally, and I know I'm being pigheaded, but I'm really not willing to give up work/life-style that I have. I could get any number of lucrative jobs if I wanted to move to NJ or anywhere else, but I'm not, and neither is my partner - she also has a lot of ties to this community.

I've done the commute to NYC. It's an hour drive to the metro-north, then $45 round trip ticket, then whatever it is for the subway, all told it's 3 hours one way. I used to stay with my Aunt 3 days a week in Stratford CT to cut the expenses. Sure, Amtrak is 12 minutes away, but that's $75 round trip. That said, I'm totally open to the Albany area.

Ennis Ray Lynch, Jr. wrote:
Next, get an el-cheapo hotel for a few weeks to test the waters and learn the community. You might hate the job and want to leave first week.


Also excellent advice!

Ennis Ray Lynch, Jr. wrote:
Also, you can use the first two weeks to negotiate tele-commute 1 week on 4 weeks remote isn't that bad and is easier to negotiate after they have seen you work for a week. (Just don't bank on it)


Precisely.

Ennis Ray Lynch, Jr. wrote:
Lastly, give up software development. I love it but I am going to move on. My next contract will be project management.


Agreed as well. I guess if push comes to shove, I can make major lifestyle changes, but right now that would be a major upheaval, and I'm not at that point yet.

Sooo...my rant should definitely be qualified by the fact that I'm choosing a certain lifestyle and want to find work that fits within that lifestyle, not the other way around. Smile | :)

Marc

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