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chriselst wrote: but I was reluctant to move because I was well paid and worked 5 minutes from home.
I call this a golden prison situation. With kids and mortgage a.s.o., the decision of changing jobs for your own better self-being is very hard to make. It would make me feel very guilty.
~RaGE();
I think words like 'destiny' are a way of trying to find order where none exists. - Christian Graus
Entropy isn't what it used to.
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Rage wrote: It would make me feel very guilty
Having a job you hate has a negative impact on your mental health, and yes, your family is negatively affected by it too.
All in all, it's all tradeoffs. Will you feel more guilty over having that better self-being job, or the golden prison one?
We can program with only 1's, but if all you've got are zeros, you've got nothing.
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Similar here. My first job out of college.
I'm just old enough that I'm on the tail end of the generation where you went to work, worked for a company for 30ish years, took a pension, and retired. Thus, it didn't occur to me that even though the job was making me miserable, it was ok to go somewhere else. I stayed at least 2 or 3 years too long.
Of course, like any situation, there's good and bad. I have some friends from there I still keep in touch with almost 20 years after I left; so, not all the people were bad.
Another thing to keep in mind is that if a place is bad for you, that doesn't necessarily make it a bad place to work. Some of the people I worked with back there are still there. Even though it became a horrible place for me to work, it's apparently working out for them.
If your co-workers/bosses/whatever tried to get you to stay, extra money/vacation/perks they offer still might not be worth it for you specifically. If you're miserable and hate to get out of bed each morning, it's just not worth the hassle. When you recognize that, time to move on.
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I think it would be better to ask if people had never worked in a place that they hated.
I've had some miserable jobs, you know when it gets serious because the end of the weekend becomes deeply depressing. I just walk at that point.
I work on a freelance basis so I think I suffer less from the fear of losing a job, it's naturally not going to be there for that much longer anyway. Some people hate their jobs but fear moving somewhere else, which I guess is natural, but very often can keep them trapped in a miserable situation.
Regards,
Rob Philpott.
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Rob Philpott wrote: I think it would be better to ask if people had never worked in a place that they hated.
How would one know if they hate a job on an exact point?
I only hate development when my Senior Developer forces work on me, making me stop whatever I have to do for the Project Managers and the clients I currently have (which are quite fussy too).
I hate having tasks forced onto me at a certain point because it breaks the flow of how I work.
if (Broken)
then fix.this
else !fix.this
end-if
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I've never hated it but my first job did frustrate me sufficiently that I quit. I liked my coworkers but they weren't properly trained so it was really tough trying to get anything developed there. They also had quite strict working hours which I don't do all that well with (particularly in the weeks after the clocks going on!).
It's a good company, but it didn't work out for me there.
You can never expect everything to be perfectly fun at work, though – if something's that fun then you don't have to pay people to do it.
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Whenever we work under pressure with tight schedules,there is a my co-worker who is Functional Analyst, laughs and says "That's why I have not chosen Development."
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Yes, one time at the same place.
We had a top-notch contractor in, because he cost ££££s (which he actually earned - I've heard horror stories about countractors) they actually listened to him and he turned the outfit into a dynamic and interesting place to work. He left and the lessons weren't learned by the people making the decisions, so we went back to the moribund default state.
All it takes quite often to flip from one state to another is one person to enter or leave the team.
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It usually takes both the people and the job together for me to hate the job. If the job is great but the people aren't, I can work with that. If the people are great but the job sucks, then I find value in that. But both? Ugh. I left a job after one week recently because of that combination (mind you, two of the three people were great, but the important person, the PM, was awful, and he's the one that counted.)
Marc
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I started at a new company 3 weeks ago and I'm considering leaving. They're too busy to give me something to sink my teeth into, and not being productive makes me utterly miserable.
Even a bad project is better than being forced to try and look busy because you're new at the job 
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Ri_ wrote: Even a bad project is better than being forced to try and look busy because you're new at the job
That's one of the reasons why I left the job after a week. I was told to bill 40 hours a week. There wasn't the work to support that. I don't mind fudging a little (after all, one ends up putting in 70+ hours sometimes) but this was absolutely ridiculous.
Still, gift horse and all that. I just couldn't ethically do it though.
Marc
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Marc Clifton wrote: I just couldn't ethically do it though.
Ethics! Sucks to have them  I wonder if it skips a generation because sometimes seems as if it missed the Millennials.
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It's not the people I work with that annoy me. It's the few customers who seem to call multiple times every week with the oddball scenarios that need special attention that make me hate the job sometimes...like today. 
"Go forth into the source" - Neal Morse
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I work in this place with a guy called
Member 9244203 and he makes me hate my job 
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I hate my job but not because of the people I work with. I hate it because of the totally asinine coding rules that I am forced to comply with. Team lead is a nice person but bullheaded and claims the customer we work for will not permit any changes to the rules for us but yet the customer regularly ignore their own rules.
modified 30-Apr-21 21:01pm.
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It's not just you - some people who work alone feel the same way.
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Sometimes I felt bored of my workplace.
Programmer is only me and other people are sales and management.
I'm younger in my team and sometimes my worker is too old.
It's hard to communicate with them.
I have been worked for 3 years in window programming..
Thesedays, I got slump and lose interest.
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what do you call a sting that holds a file path together with the file name itself
e.g. C:\Folder\Directory\myFile.txt
And what do you call just the file name?
e.g. myFile.txt
And what about just the name of the folder the file is in?
e.g. C:\Folder\Directory
I never seem to be consistent - I think we need a new word (or am I missing something?)
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Filepath:
C:\Folder\Directory\myFile.txt
Filename:
myFile.txt
Folderpath, or path:
C:\Folder\Directory
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Folder
Directory
~RaGE();
I think words like 'destiny' are a way of trying to find order where none exists. - Christian Graus
Entropy isn't what it used to.
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This is good 
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Rage wrote: Filename:
myFile.txt
I would change that slightly:
FileName:
myFile
Complete Filename:
myFile.txt
Those who fail to learn history are doomed to repeat it. --- George Santayana (December 16, 1863 – September 26, 1952)
Those who fail to clear history are doomed to explain it. --- OriginalGriff (February 24, 1959 – ∞)
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_Maxxx_ wrote: e.g. C:\Folder\Directory\myFile.txt
filePath as it is the path to the given file
_Maxxx_ wrote: e.g. myFile.txt
file
_Maxxx_ wrote: e.g. C:\Folder\Directory
path
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_Maxxx_ wrote: e.g. C:\Folder\Directory\myFile.txt
Path
_Maxxx_ wrote: e.g. myFile.txt
File or filename
_Maxxx_ wrote: e.g. C:\Folder\Directory
Folder or directory
I'm not questioning your powers of observation; I'm merely remarking upon the paradox of asking a masked man who he is. (V)
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Kornfeld Eliyahu Peter wrote: Folder or directory
A good example of nuance I've never really gotten.
~RaGE();
I think words like 'destiny' are a way of trying to find order where none exists. - Christian Graus
Entropy isn't what it used to.
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