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David Crow21-Nov-21 3:54
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Kirk 1038982122-Nov-21 5:03
Kirk 1038982122-Nov-21 5:03 
I side with your wife.

Hoarding is NOT about HOW you acquired things. It's about not getting rid of things!

you have a lot to be grateful for. First, that you could afford those things without selling some of them, etc. And that you have the SPACE to have all of that stuff!

But if you are NOT using it. Have no plans to TRULY use it... Time to get rid of it.

So, here is an easy approach. Take ONE thing a month, that you have NOT USED in a LONG time. Put it in a box. Date the box with the date that YOU ACCEPT it's probably not going to be used ever again. (This says nothing about having "value", this is about taking up space/energy/etc).

Then give your wife permission to toss the boxes on those dates. (This lets you avoid the psychological impact of "loss" by building to it, and not forcing you to go without something).

Also, I would probably put the wife in charge of your Tech Budget money. one of her Strings is removing old stuff BEFORE buying new stuff, or sticking to the protocol. That will give her some control, and she will be able to see progress...

Think of it has HARDWARE DEBT. you are accumulating it without REFACTORING your space!

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