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I'm not sure I should bother but
Keith Barrow wrote: the whole thing is state-sanctioned anyway
Just as is going out for a walk, so don't go asking the state for license to go out for a walk because they'll give you one and then I will need one to in order to do what I have always freely done before, especially if you're not really going out for a walk anyway but inventing something new and merely calling it 'going out for a walk'
Keith Barrow wrote: There won't be any legal status as the contract hasn't been agreed upon by any
of the parties involved
No contract will be required, the law is being changed, why is this so hard to grasp.
Keith Barrow wrote: I suggest you report it to the police
What would they do. It's not illegal with civial partnerships!
Keith Barrow wrote: This also kind of undermines your point that introducing homosexual marriage
will introduce this practice, given it is already happening.
It's already happening with civil partnerships and I was already angry about it, now it will be able to happen with marriages as well as there is no longer any distinction.
"The secret of happiness is freedom, and the secret of freedom, courage."
Thucydides (B.C. 460-400)
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Keith Barrow wrote: this is the sort of nonsensical rant I expect from the BNP,
It's not about the actual law being passed, it's about the way it was passed, without mandate and the timing of it. The whole thing stinks.
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If you want to understand why that's occuring you have to look at what's coming down the track from the EU. Next October/November they're planning to force recognition of existing Belgian? gay marriages EU wide. Our glorious and brave and PM knows this is coming and is taking a hit now rather then loose his whole party in 9 months time when they realize it has nothing to do with any matter of principle or personal belief on his part.
"The secret of happiness is freedom, and the secret of freedom, courage."
Thucydides (B.C. 460-400)
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That wasn't his argument. The timing is stupid and it wasn't in the manifesto. It is also a stupid move by David Cameron, but from my point of view that's a good thing.
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JFC! It was a flippant remark vis-a-vis the ability to now report spam.
Just calm down and remember that marriage as we view it today is NOT a religious thing. Religions recognised it but did not create it. If two individuals want to betroth themselves freely and willingly to each other than fair go to them. I'd like a wee bit of tax back [if I actually earned anything] but that's another story.
I think forced or coerced unions are a far greater evil than two guys, or ladies, getting married.
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OK. I'm chilling  Once again we seem to be agreeing to agree.
"The secret of happiness is freedom, and the secret of freedom, courage."
Thucydides (B.C. 460-400)
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Marriage existed well before religions were around.
It is a sensible way of telling society "We Are A Couple And These Children Are Our Responsibility".
Marriage, in its truest, most simplistic form, is merely a pair bonding for the purposes of procreation and joint raising of the offspring.
(qv many animals pair bond for life for this reason, and I do not see Penguin vicars performing services or sussurating incantations over the happy couple).
I can't wait to see a couple of lesbian muslims wanting the local imam to betroth them, or a couple of gay men looking for the priest to bless the conjoining of their union.
In fact if we just accept a couple living together as a unit as a marriage per se (as it has been from time immemorial) then what is the problem?
There are many heterosexual couple who have spent years together, raised children, bought houses etc who have never bothered standing in front of a wizard to be blessed, and yet in these enlightened days we do not consider them to be 'living in sin', merely a couple of people who are together.
I was with Michelle for 10 years before we tied the knot, and we did it because we felt like it, not because of any moral or legal imperative.
(Plus I fancied a party).
People need to get a life and realise that just because some old book written in the desert by bronze age peasants says something is wrong, don't make it so.
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Dalek Dave wrote: I do not see Penguin vicars performing services or sussurating incantations over the happy couple
Then you haven't been watching enough nature shows. 
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America is the only country that went from barbarism to decadence without civilization in between. -Oscar Wilde
Wow, even the French showed a little more spine than that before they got their sh*t pushed in.[^] -Colin Mullikin
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Why should you get tax back? It's your choice to do it, it should make absolutely no difference to one's tax status at all, any other setup is discriminatory.
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Maximilien wrote: All should be equal before the law of the land (wherever your land is); with the
same privileges, responsabilities and rights.
People should be able
to get married and have their union recognized by the people and law of the
land.
We're in absolute agreement about that and of course none of that is changed by this new law.
"The secret of happiness is freedom, and the secret of freedom, courage."
Thucydides (B.C. 460-400)
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Matthew Faithfull wrote: Except the 2 men were a landlord and his tenent. The landlord had gone along with his tennent out of the kindness of his heart to a benefits review to check the tenents qualification for housing benefit. The council official filled in a form, marked a register, falsely claimed that the tenent was a dependent of the landlord recieving succour from him ( the tenent was 2 months behind with the rent due to the councils reluctance to pay his housing benefit ). Nobody agreed to anything and the 2 men left slightly confused as to what had happened. The council now doesn't have to pay the tenent's housing benefit because his legal partner is rich. Oh and the land lord who was planning to get married next month to Arlene now cannot without being a criminal bigamist ( They'll only get around to abolishing the biggamy laws in the next parliament )
Hang on - am I reading this right (shortened to pick out the important bits)
Two people can be put into a civil partnership without their consent by any council official?
Sounds like a massive snafu - are there links to reports of this actually happening?
Regards, Stewart
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Stewart Judson wrote: Two people can be put into a civil partnership without their consent by any
council official?
I don't know about 'any' but yes. Given that this could be 'corrected' then you might think that's OK. Well then just sign here to get your reduced housing benefit...
Oh by the way I hope you don't have any objections to being permenantly recorded as being in a gay civil partnership marriage? ( of course you wouldn't object would you because that wouldn't be politically correct so its reasonable to assume that you didn't have any objections ) Ooops, too late I already filled out the paperwork.
It may indeed have been an oversight although I severly doubt it. Either way that's very little comfort to those on the recieving end.
I watched this happen having turned on a documentary about 'benefit claimants' or 'life on benefits' or some such. I didn't have the context so had to watch the rerun to work out what the hell it was I just witnessed. I mentioned it to several people in the following week who had seen the same documentary. Only one actually understood what they had seen. The rest were all in denial along the lines of, "but that would be like forced marriage so that can't be what she said  ", except that it actually was. 'All I have to do is fill out a form. It goes on your record permanently as a lesbian civil partnership. You stayed with this person over Christmas, she helped you set up a bank account. I have reason to believe you're in a lesbian civil partnership so you don't qualify for this benefit.'-not a direct quote but as close as I can remember it.
I've done a little research since and more is certainly required but yes this is as sinister as it sounds.
"The secret of happiness is freedom, and the secret of freedom, courage."
Thucydides (B.C. 460-400)
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So, it's a bit like me living in the same house as a woman (not married), but if I earned >£60k, the child benefit she gets would be taken out of my wages. We could be in a relationship or not, but if the government wants to save cash, I'm sure they would be looking for an interpretation that meant they could decide we were.
Considering the number of stages we are away from the event - it happens - someone tells a researcher it has happened - the researcher packages that up for consideration - the editor of the program spruces it up for broadcast - I'm very skeptical of any resemblance to the truth. (I think this is true of most TV news, so I rarely watch).
I'll be looking for reports tho.
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Stewart Judson wrote: We could be in a relationship or not, but if the government wants to save cash, I'm sure they would be looking for an interpretation that meant they could decide we were.
Which is exactly what they are doing. They use Experian to look at credit reports to look for signs that there are two people living as a couple (married or not is irrelevant) where a lone claim has been made.
As soon as they find one they stop the benefits or tax credits unless you can prove that the other person doesn't live there or is not your partner.
I know someone who has been caught by this because they kept their ex's address for their mail when they moved out.
The advice when separating is now to see a solicitor to draw up a document about the separation, but that is still not enough if there is a paper trail that links you to the address.
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modified 6-Feb-13 10:15am.
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Fair enough (well not really that fair), but the headline is probably more 'Government makes false assumptions about relationships to save cash' than 'Civil partnerships forced on benefits claimants'.
Regards, Stewart
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If it was a 'news show' as such I would agree but this was a moment in an extended piece of documentary footage about a number of (as far as I could tell) real individuals. It wasn't in itself either directly the topic of the documentary or any major part of whatever probably spurious argument they were trying to make which is one reason why most people missed it. I was fortunate I turned on in the middle and just got hit with this interview in progress. I had to watch the rerun to find out what it was all about. I've since talked to people fom inside councils who have confirmed that this is going on but the scale is very hard to judge.
"The secret of happiness is freedom, and the secret of freedom, courage."
Thucydides (B.C. 460-400)
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