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PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 7:08

2-Dec-14 7:08

Take it to the Soapbox.

Johnny J.4-Dec-14 23:15

Johnny J.

4-Dec-14 23:15

I would have said: Take it to Stackoverflow... D'Oh! | :doh:

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jeron12-Dec-14 7:25

jeron1

2-Dec-14 7:25

Vivic wrote:
No one teaches a Volcano how to Erupt....

You obviously haven't met my missus.

"the debugger doesn't tell me anything because this code compiles just fine" - random QA comment

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OriginalGriff2-Dec-14 8:00

OriginalGriff

2-Dec-14 8:00

So...forgot the wedding anniversary again, have we?

Bad command or file name. Bad, bad command! Sit! Stay! Staaaay...

Kornfeld Eliyahu Peter2-Dec-14 8:08

Kornfeld Eliyahu Peter

2-Dec-14 8:08

Probably the wedding day itself...

Skipper: We'll fix it.
Alex: Fix it? How you gonna fix this?
Skipper: Grit, spit and a whole lotta duct tape.

Deflinek2-Dec-14 8:28

Deflinek

2-Dec-14 8:28

OriginalGriff wrote:
So...forgot the wedding anniversary again, have we?

You can't forget it again. The best way to always remember is to forget it once! Smile | :)

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"My software never has bugs. It just develops random features."

jeron12-Dec-14 9:41

jeron1

2-Dec-14 9:41

Deflinek wrote:
You can't forget it again.

Of course you can, brain damage caused by repeated blows to the cranium with a heavy blunt object, brought on by the first time you forgot. Smile | :)

Slacker0072-Dec-14 8:14

2-Dec-14 8:14

Marriage is not natural. That is why you have to force it to work. When a man and woman or "partners" decide they are done forcing, then that becomes divorce/breakup.

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 8:36

2-Dec-14 8:36

Slacker007 wrote:
Marriage is not natural.

You're right in the fact that most people just aren't happy in one and that's not natural, but it can work. The way I see it is it's a feminine thing. Masculine energy wants to roam free. Either the man or woman can take on the masculine role since someone has to in a couple. Feminine energy is so wrapped up in their partner they'd never think of straying, the exact opposite of masculine. And yes, either the man or woman can take that role too.

The problem arises because most people tie the knot without enough relationship experience to find out who they are compatible with. They don't get the wild out of their system. Etc. There are even women out there that don't like, but still understands a man's need to roam the streets. And of course, wonderfully awesome bi chicks that are willing to join in the extra marital fun with you.

So while I do think life-long lock down isn't natural as you do, it can work. And it would work a lot better if more people knew more about relationships. That being said, I'm not getting married any time soon. Smile | :)

Jeremy Falcon

Slacker0072-Dec-14 8:41

2-Dec-14 8:41

Jeremy Falcon wrote:
hat being said, I'm not getting married any time soon.

I knew you were not married before I read this part.

Trust me when I tell you that, marriage is not natural. The only reason why a couple stays together is out of some form of "work", good or bad.

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 8:46

2-Dec-14 8:46

Slacker007 wrote:
I knew you were not married before I read this part.

Fair enough, but I get along with the right women great. So living with them wouldn't be a problem. Of course I'd still get away to go do manly stuff. That's the key though, the right women. The wrong type of person will drive you up a wall.

The longest I've lived with a woman that was a girlfriend was 7 years. It sucked, we argued a fair amount. But, I know it also had more to do with me being immature (and her too) than anything else. Not saying I'd ever do it again, so I totally see your point. But, I'm older and wiser now and think I could do a better job at finding someone I'm more compatible with, assuming she has a twin sister.

Jeremy Falcon

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 8:52

2-Dec-14 8:52

Keep in mind if I did live with a girl again, I wouldn't be getting married to her. So, I'll just say that ignorance is bliss my man.

Jeremy Falcon

PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 8:46

2-Dec-14 8:46

Few animals are naturally monogamous; primates aren't one of them. And there's no reason a particular marriage has to be monogamous.

modified 2-Dec-14 14:58pm.

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 8:56

2-Dec-14 8:56

People say that, and yet they all get married. So while I agree with what you're saying, it's hard to listen to it if it's coming from someone married (don't know if you are or not) or coming from guys that have little to no relationship experience (like most programmers; again not saying that's you).

I know part of the reason it sucks it because of the lack of relationship experience. Most men don't understand women and most women don't understand men. Most tie themselves down before even shopping. A life-long commitment with lack of experience on what you're getting into is a great recipe for trouble regardless if animals do it or not.

Keep in mind I have no kids and never been married. Ha ha.

Jeremy Falcon

PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 9:02

2-Dec-14 9:02

I'm saying don't assume a marriage must include monogamy. Mine doesn't. Cool | :cool:

Jeremy Falcon wrote:
Most tie themselves down

No, that's what the other women are for. Jig | [Dance]

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 9:04

2-Dec-14 9:04

PIEBALDconsult wrote:
I'm saying don't assume a marriage must include monogamy. Mine doesn't.

Yeah I caught that part with the second response. And good for you man, sounds like you found a great woman.

Jeremy Falcon

PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 9:14

2-Dec-14 9:14

Yes, yes I did.

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 9:01

2-Dec-14 9:01

PIEBALDconsult wrote:
And there's no reason a particular marriage has to be monogamous.

Oh, and I totally agree with that. The best women understand a man's need to roam free IMO. The problem arises from deceit about it. Women care about intimacy and connection in a relationship a LOT. That goes out the window when a guy lies about what he does in his off time. Not every women goes for it. Some want to be a part of it. But yeah, I totally agree with that.

Jeremy Falcon

PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 9:03

2-Dec-14 9:03

Jeremy Falcon wrote:
deceit

Well, that's a whole separate ball of trouble.

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 9:25

ZurdoDev

2-Dec-14 9:25

PIEBALDconsult wrote:
And there's no reason a particular marriage ~~has to~~ should not be monogamous.

FTFY.

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 9:27

ZurdoDev

2-Dec-14 9:27

Slacker007 wrote:
Marriage is not natural

Neither is doing #2 in a toilet. But intelligent beings do certain things because it's the right thing to do; whether it is natural or not.

Natural often does not equal right.

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

Slacker0072-Dec-14 9:28

2-Dec-14 9:28

Are you a practicing Christian, by chance? Marriage is not always the right (correct) thing to do. It is if you are religious.

edit - a couple can live many happy years together, without being married. Some say that it is easier to be with someone if you are not "married".

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 9:30

ZurdoDev

2-Dec-14 9:30

Slacker007 wrote:
Are you a practicing Christian, by chance?

Yes.

Slacker007 wrote:
Marriage is not always the right (correct) thing to do.

True.

Slacker007 wrote:
It is if you are religious.

Not always.

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

Slacker0072-Dec-14 9:31

2-Dec-14 9:31

RyanDev wrote:
Not always.

but it influences your life and opinion. Your thoughts are dictated by the church (probably) and not other wise. Could be wrong, just guessing. No harm in that. Smile | :)

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 9:33