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agolddog3-Apr-14 3:38
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Similar here. My first job out of college.

I'm just old enough that I'm on the tail end of the generation where you went to work, worked for a company for 30ish years, took a pension, and retired. Thus, it didn't occur to me that even though the job was making me miserable, it was ok to go somewhere else. I stayed at least 2 or 3 years too long.

Of course, like any situation, there's good and bad. I have some friends from there I still keep in touch with almost 20 years after I left; so, not all the people were bad.

Another thing to keep in mind is that if a place is bad for you, that doesn't necessarily make it a bad place to work. Some of the people I worked with back there are still there. Even though it became a horrible place for me to work, it's apparently working out for them.

If your co-workers/bosses/whatever tried to get you to stay, extra money/vacation/perks they offer still might not be worth it for you specifically. If you're miserable and hate to get out of bed each morning, it's just not worth the hassle. When you recognize that, time to move on.
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