First of all instead of concatenating a value from textbox to your SQL query always use parameters, see
OleDbParameter[
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What comes to fetching the you can use Year and Month functions. For example if the IDday column is the one you want to compare then something like
Dim rs As New OleDb.OleDbDataAdapter("SELECT * FROM tbLMPH WHERE Year(IDday) = Year(Now()) AND Month(IDday) = Month(Now())", con)