I managed to find a solution to my problem.
Basically the button would poop up with an alert stating are you sure you want to delete but nothing would happen if i pressed i am sure.
What i was missing was a link between the function for the delete button and the sql function to delete the user.
I had to create another page to add the server side code that links the button to the SQL
code added to new page..
Protected Sub Page_Load(sender As Object, e As EventArgs) Handles Me.Load
If Request.QueryString("userid") <> "" Then
Dim delResult As New DataSet
Dim dt As DataTableReader
delResult = GetUserName.deleteUser(Request.QueryString("userid").ToString)
dt = delResult.CreateDataReader
End If
End Sub