You could build up a kind of Dialog.
This is a Form, which is created as you want and which also content the design as you want. With the Buttons you set the value of DialogResult for which you ask in your calling Form.
This could be build up like this :
Script-Parts of the Dialog-Form :
Public Class Dialog_mySelection
Inherits Form
Private Sub Button_Abort_Click(sender As System.Object, e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button_Abort.Click
Me.DialogResult = System.Windows.Forms.DialogResult.Cancel
Me.Close()
End Sub
Private Sub Button_OK_Click(sender As System.Object, e As System.EventArgs) Handles Button_OK.Click
Me.DialogResult = System.Windows.Forms.DialogResult.OK
Me.Close()
End Sub
end class
Script-Parts inside the calling Form :
Dim myDialog As New Dialog_mySelection
myDialog.ShowDialog()
If myDialog.DialogResult = System.Windows.Forms.DialogResult.OK Then
ElseIf myDialog.DialogResult = System.Windows.Forms.DialogResult.Cancel Then
End If