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So you are encouraging orgies?
- I would love to change the world, but they won’t give me the source code.
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I hope she never needs those skills unless she decides to compete. However, I still want her to have them.
Besides, there are many things a person gains on the way to being self-defense efficient, aside from the actual battle tactics involved.
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Agreed.
There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.
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You might look into hapkido for her. It's Korean for "maiming and killing in painful fashion" I believe, and the training can be done from video tapes with a willing victim for practice. Simple twists and leverage are all that's required, without great strength. It's especially useful for removing unwanted hands in a special way that will discourage a repeat offense. 
Will Rogers never met me.
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In an unarmed fight with a single opponent, I don't value anything higher than kickboxing. Especially if that opponent is trained in any art. I have several reasons for this.
However, as a secondary skill I think hapkido would be fine. If I get a preference on a second skill, since she doesn't want to do grappling, I would say knife fighting. I enjoyed the bits of kali knife stuff I learned, and it's the second most practical thing to happen IMO.
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loctrice wrote: I don't value anything higher than kickboxing.
yeah coz all things are equal.
dude its the dude/ess doing it not the martial art.
Bryce
MCAD
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I don't think that is correct. Nothing I've seen leads me to believe that is true.
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what you have seen (e.g. the story below) and what is the case is actually two different beasts and they're easy to confuse.
Those that are not suited to the style of training yuor describe elsewhere tend to leave, so you're left with the people who are more suited to it(or just like it and thus the training is effective for them). Thus an observer sees a self selecting group being trained in a particular way - and draws a conclusion.
Take that same self selecting group and training them in another style and you are more than likely have the same result.
Bryce
MCAD
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bryce wrote: what you have seen (e.g. the story below) and what is the case is actually two different beasts and they're easy to confuse.
This part of the thread doesn't have anything to do with the story below. I'm not sure hwo you are relating them.
I've got a little more experience than just reading someone else's post.
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There is a BIG difference between training with a willing opponent and fighting. I had a teacher who taught everything from combat submission wrestling, Jeet Kun Do, Kali - Silat, Muay Tai, Karate...
He would tell the Kickboxing and CSW class that "a few months of full contact sparring here and you can beat any 'point sparring' black belt".
It is very true. I watched some of his more advanced "traditional martial arts" guys come to the class and as soon as it was full contact, they were like a deer in the headlights.
There is a phrase from the first generation MMA circuits (I forget who said it). Punch a BJJ blackbelt in the face and he becomes a blue belt. Do it again and he is a white belt.
That isn't entirely true any more, but if you don't train full contact, it isn't real.
However, that said, kickboxing has a lot of things it cannot prepare for: ground fighting, multi-opponent, weapons, coercion, drug induced crazy... usually the best defense is running really fast and screaming really loud.
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I strongly agree with everything you've said.
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Pualee wrote: usually the best defense is running really fast and screaming really loud.
On the assumption that the best defense is a good offense, kick boxing still has a lot to offer. Once you put your foot into your attackers family jewels, he'll be rolling on the ground whimpering quietly instead of screaming and chasing you.
Did you ever see history portrayed as an old man with a wise brow and pulseless heart, waging all things in the balance of reason?
Is not rather the genius of history like an eternal, imploring maiden, full of fire, with a burning heart and flaming soul, humanly warm and humanly beautiful?
--Zachris Topelius
Training a telescope on one’s own belly button will only reveal lint. You like that? You go right on staring at it. I prefer looking at galaxies.
-- Sarah Hoyt
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I'd agree with most everything here, but the initial learning has to use a willing assistant, especially in an art like hapkido, since it's most effective when it's automatic. Once that is ingrained, live sparring is essential to perfecting the skill. That's one of the things I liked about my school, when it was open; sparring nights. It wasn't required, but it was encouraged and the smarter students took advantage of it.
Pualee wrote: usually the best defense is running really fast and screaming really loud.
Very true, and there's no shame in living to fight another day. I've never lost a fight in the first five miles...
Will Rogers never met me.
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I tell my students - "Run the like coward i am"
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Oh and cowards live longer 
Bryce
MCAD
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bryce wrote: tell my students
That explains why you were so touchy about the martial arts thing.
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i'm not touchy  if you want to touch me you have to pay me like all the other programmers
Bryce
MCAD
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For some reason this reminded me of This shirt[^]
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Just using a knee works too.
True story: when my oldest daughter was in sixth grade, she was in line at a camp the sixth graders in our school district go to every year. A boy behind her snapped her bra strap. She turned around and kneed him in the groin. He dropped. Story spread. No guy ever snapped her bra strap again.
Years later, she was working at an Italian fast food chain. Several of the girls complained to my daughter about a male manager hitting on them. She'd get pissed and tell them to do something about it. One evening, she was in the back alone cutting some vegetables and the guy stepped up to her. Without turning around, she told him to back off or she'd chop his balls off. He never hit on her again. Stayed far away, in fact.
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She knows where to hit someone
It's also worth noting my daughter has done well at full contact sparring with the boys. She's only had to challenge one person, and it was sort of funny.
She's usually very passive. She had someone over one day who was taunting and hitting. It started out as a play thing, but then it wasn't funny anymore. My daughter kept telling the girl it was over, and to stop it. Eventually she said, firmly, that if she touched her again she would be sorry. Problem solved
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can i suggest that kneeing someone in the groin in an overreaction to having a bra snapped?
I mean its a great story "yeah this bloke snapped her bra so knee kneed him in the nuts." yeah what a B^*%*&D deserved what he got.
Well not really. I'd argue she went over the top and got away with it because shes a girl and society encourages that.
A proportional response would have been more in order. i reckon.
Bryce
MCAD
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I agree... and had I not stopped to read something else first, would have posted it!!
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Not if you're a twelve year old girl maturing earlier than her classmates. Talk to a teenage girl. They hate this kind of bullying. So, no, I don't think it was an overreaction. Thing is, it worked. (And the kid--I knew him when they got to high school--never snapped any other girls bra straps.
Pray tell, what would be the proportional response?
bryce wrote: got away with it because shes a girl
Funny, the boy wasn't punished because that's what boys do. Truth is, she got away with it because the kid was a smart ass and nobody tattled.
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I'm sure they do hate this kind of thing - it is indeed inappropriate, i disagree a knee to the nuts is a gross overreaction -
I'm also sure the kid never did snap another bra again but there were other options to take.
A proportional response might have been a good old fashioned verbal ear bashing, a complaint to the school etc, as far as a slap perhaps - depends on the situation.
A knee to the nuts can have implications for later in life for the chap in question (and again there indeed was no place for the bra snapping that too was wrong and inappropriate).
Bryce
MCAD
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bryce wrote: A proportional response might have been a good old fashioned verbal ear bashing, a complaint to the school etc, as far as a slap perhaps - depends on the situation.
Are you serious? Do you even remember being twelve or thirteen? In my experience, complaining to teachers doesn't do a damn thing to stop bullying except to make it worse to the kid being bullied. A slap would have been laughed at and likely would have encouraged the behavior further.
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You shouldn't touch someone else. If you do, you may not like what will happen. Keep your hands to yourself, you never knwo when you can make someone feel threatened or abused.
bryce wrote: A proportional response might have been
I think that is just your opinion. You don't have the authority to decide what is proportional. Factually speaking, snapping a bra can be sexual harassment, and filing a complaint would be proportional.
bryce wrote: good old fashioned verbal ear bashing, a complaint to the school etc, as far as a slap perhaps - depends on the situation.
So a violent reaction could be appropriate, so long as you agree with which one is taken.
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