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Nicolas Dorier15-Apr-14 11:57
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G-Tek16-Apr-14 1:39
G-Tek16-Apr-14 1:39 
Hey Charlie - I think that's like the "Holy Grail" question for contractors or business owners. I've had the same question myself for years and have some thoughts that may help but no perfect answers - part of the reason for that is that it really depends on the individuals circumstances (we don't all have multiple businesses with millions sitting in the bank and multiple employees that can handle things when we step out of the picture for years at a time!).

1. Goals. How much money is "enough"? If you have goals, as some of the other people have responded indicate that they do, then it's easier to define when it's ok to take a break because you've "earned it" and you won't associate the "another hour = another $" as much (or at least that's the idea). If you're really ambitious that can make this difficult because you're always striving to get in just a few more hours. The other issue that many of us have dealt with personally (at least when you first start out) is the concern that if you don't do this work now then the work opportunity may not exist tomorrow - that's lost income, right? The truth is that may in fact be the case and you'll have to make a judgement call on that based on the other factors - do you have other work lined up in the coming months, how marketable are your skills, how big is the opportunity, etc.

2. Productivity. Some people "need" vacation more than others and, as others have commented, that a vacation will make you more productive in the long run. It can be hard to be convinced when you have a s**tload of work staring at you that the fastest way to get through it is to take a week off! I really think that comes down to the person as some people need a break more than others and some need different types of breaks - a night out playing pool once/week vs. a vacation away for a week. Only you can answer how your productivity is affected by taking a break - just don't ignore the fact that it can be affected and don't ignore that your "break" choices impact your family.

3. Community decision. As you have already commented, bringing work with you everywhere will not make your wife a fan! I've been there too, more than once! Unfortunately if you're the only person that can deal with a particular part (or all) of your business then it may be unavoidable to bring a phone/tablet/laptop and be accessible in case of emergency, but do your best to separate the emergency situations from planning to "get a bit of work done at night while at the resort" or "pulling out your laptop at the beach or poolside while the kids are having a swim". Ultimately if you're in a family you are one member of the decision making team (unless you happen to run a dictatorship) so be sure to involve your family in your goals and vacation plans. The more they know the better they can support you and help you to help yourself ("Dad, you said we could go camping this weekend after this project was done") - some times we need those little reminders to stop us from being workaholics.

I can also tell you that having been involved in a number of entrepreneur groups that this is a common theme across any self-employed discipline - and I've heard very successful entrepreneurs stake the importance of making that time (and that includes both from those individuals who have families and personal lives AND those who had "lost" their families because of their focus on work) and also people that sincerely believe that being an entrepreneur means you don't have a personal/family life (which really sounds sad, especially when you consider that many of us are doing this, at least in part, for our families).

Sorry for the long response. As I said at the beginning, there is no perfect answer. My suggestion - get input from everyone here, talk to your family, and figure out what works well for your situation. *edit - for the record, I can't remember my last real vacation so feel free to ignore all of my advice! *

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