i have solved it my self, but thanks to all of you guys, solution is:
StrSql = "Select serial_no,optionName,MenuID from [User_" + Session["UserEmail"] + "]";
StrSql = StrSql + " Order By serial_no";
DataSet rsmenu = (DataSet)MethodClass.ConnectionToQuery(StrSql);
if (rsmenu.Tables[0].Rows.Count > 0)
{
for (var i = 0; i < rsmenu.Tables[0].Rows.Count; i++)
{
foreach (MenuItem item in MnuUserManagement.Items)
{
if (item.Text == rsmenu.Tables[0].Rows[i]["optionName"].ToString())
{
item.Enabled = true;
StrSql = "Select serial_no,optionName,MenuID from [User_" + Session["UserEmail"]+ "]";
StrSql = StrSql + " Order By serial_no";
DataSet rs = (DataSet)MethodClass.ConnectionToQuery(StrSql);
if (rs.Tables[0].Rows.Count > 0)
{
for (var i = 0; i < rs.Tables[0].Rows.Count; i++)
{
foreach (MenuItem childItem in item.ChildItems)
{
if (childItem.Text == rs.Tables[0].Rows[i]["Optionname"].ToString())
{
childItem.Enabled = true;
}
}
}
}
}
}
}
}