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GeneralRe: I'm having a bad day (though probably not as bad as my grandparents)... Pin
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It might sound really tough but please think about it.

If he still has a good % of getting good if he survives this, then fight with everything you and he have. But if not... be prepared to just say good bye and let him go.

And yes, I know what it is... we confronted such a decission when my mother got in a similar situation. She had already suffered enough the last couple of years and the perspective of being still bad and connected 100% to a machine delaying the inevitable... that was something she had already told several times she wouldn't like it, so when the time came, we respected her whishes and asked the doctors to only assist her to be in peace... she was gone in less than 30 hours.
The worst thing for me was I didn't manage to say good bye personally because my flight arrived 6 hours too late.
It was hard, but I still think we did the correct thing.
M.D.V. Wink | ;)

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