i logged in normal gmail, after that i have a asp page url in my inbox, when i clik the link just i want to get the gmailid from gmail

If the email is in the Gmail's inbox , containing a link to your aspx page => you have sent that email , So you can customize the url like (www.yourpage.com/landingpage.aspx?mail=EncodedEmail) before sending the email

the EncodedEmailwill be the user's email in encoding format ,
on that aspx page you can get teh query string , decode it , get the emailid , i.e. from which email the link is being clicked.

Or you can use open authentication , it needs the user to allow you to access the email id

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