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Great article. One thing I took from it was that just because you don't notice it doesn't mean it's not a problem. It could be in the business you are in or at your own very workplace.
I've got a hard time taking this in thou. I can't see myself being quite while being subjected to it and I'd like to think I would be vocal about it if I ever was a witness.
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Not physical though, here is something which a senior manager (who will remain unnamed) would do:
- He would go around the office, and stop by to talk for more than 20 minutes, at cubes of lady employees. Persons like me were not even glanced at, by him
Obviously, all 'Management Awards' went to them, while our role was just to applaud.
This is another aspect, which is also not addressed much.
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Twenty years ago my wife worked with such a pig at a well-known software company as a language translator and was often subject to his harassment. Thankfully, it was nothing physical, all verbal and innuendo. I was so angry about it and wanted her to talk to her supervisors and I wanted to do something about it myself. But she would not do anything and would not let me do anything. She and I were both young and naive. Today, she would not stand for it and today I would ignore her pleas to leave it alone.
Decrease the belief in God, and you increase the numbers of those who wish to play at being God by being “society’s supervisors,” who deny the existence of divine standards, but are very serious about imposing their own standards on society.-Neal A. Maxwell
You must accept 1 of 2 basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe or we are not alone. Either way, the implications are staggering!-Wernher von Braun
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Yes, I remember similar things at an old software house I used to work at. I was younger, and less certain of myself to complain. If I witnessed such behaviour now I would talk to the woman involved and offer to act as witness if she wanted to take it further.
It is up to all of us to make it known such behaviour is reprehensible and will not stand.
"If you don't fail at least 90 percent of the time, you're not aiming high enough."
Alan Kay.
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Here's a relevant and worthwhile TED talk: Jackson Katz: Violence against women—it's a men's issue | TED Talk | TED.com[^]
Decrease the belief in God, and you increase the numbers of those who wish to play at being God by being “society’s supervisors,” who deny the existence of divine standards, but are very serious about imposing their own standards on society.-Neal A. Maxwell
You must accept 1 of 2 basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe or we are not alone. Either way, the implications are staggering!-Wernher von Braun
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Thanks for posting that - there is much to agree with in there.
"If you don't fail at least 90 percent of the time, you're not aiming high enough."
Alan Kay.
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I, like Uncle Bob and others replying, have not ever witnessed such behavior. If I ever did see such a thing I know for certain I would not tolerate it (I'm not one to be quiet when I see something f*d up), but how can I do anything about it if it never comes to my attention?
I also wonder sometimes about whether this is a general "industry" problem, or more of a "Silicon Valley" problem. Nearly every time I read an article about sexism in our industry, including Uncle Bob's, the anecdotes refer to something happening in Silicon Valley (or a company that touts itself as a Silicon Valley-like startup). [Note: I'm not saying sexual harassment never happens outside of Silicon Valley, I'm only questioning whether it is a widespread issue outside of there].
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Gjeltema wrote: I also wonder sometimes about whether this is a general "industry" problem, or more of a "Silicon Valley" problem.
It is a man issue: "Power has a gender, and that gender is male."
It is not only in our specific domain, but everywhere.
I'd rather be phishing!
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I've never seen anything either. At the same time, if the scum bags aren't being blatant a lot of the physical stuff's not easy for an outside observer to notice. ex in the middle of a crowd, a bump-grope is probably going concealed from everyone else's awareness unless our eyes are in the wrong place.
Did you ever see history portrayed as an old man with a wise brow and pulseless heart, waging all things in the balance of reason?
Is not rather the genius of history like an eternal, imploring maiden, full of fire, with a burning heart and flaming soul, humanly warm and humanly beautiful?
--Zachris Topelius
Training a telescope on one’s own belly button will only reveal lint. You like that? You go right on staring at it. I prefer looking at galaxies.
-- Sarah Hoyt
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Site wrote: You never, ever manhandle someone without their very explicit consent.
Just sounds weird.
Bastard Programmer from Hell 
If you can't read my code, try converting it here[^]
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Yeah, if it's consensual, is it "manhandling"?
Decrease the belief in God, and you increase the numbers of those who wish to play at being God by being “society’s supervisors,” who deny the existence of divine standards, but are very serious about imposing their own standards on society.-Neal A. Maxwell
You must accept 1 of 2 basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe or we are not alone. Either way, the implications are staggering!-Wernher von Braun
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When cloud providers use uncommon and/or unpredictable pricing models, even your informed hunch about the cost can be off by several orders of magnitude, like the price differential between an iPad and a Ferrari. Always read the small print
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I also like huge numbers in commercials, but surrounded with phrases like "up to" or "starting at" written in tiny fonts...
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Getting data out of AWS is pretty expensive normally, here's another way. *Dusts shoulders off*
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Playing with Raspberry Pi B+ Your daily IoT fix.
modified 19-Jan-16 9:15am.
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I think you pasted the same text from the previous post. But the link appears to be correct.
Decrease the belief in God, and you increase the numbers of those who wish to play at being God by being “society’s supervisors,” who deny the existence of divine standards, but are very serious about imposing their own standards on society.-Neal A. Maxwell
You must accept 1 of 2 basic premises: Either we are alone in the universe or we are not alone. Either way, the implications are staggering!-Wernher von Braun
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Oh no.
Thanks,
Sean Ewington
CodeProject
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Apex is a small program written in Go for managing “serverless” architecture via AWS Lambda, allowing you to focus on code instead of infrastructure. Serverless architecture with AWS Lambda
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We want GitLab to be the best place for any software project, whether open source or not, whether big or small. GitLab's thoughts on letter to GitHub’s open source community
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None of the three presidential candidates at the Democratic debate Sunday night appeared to understand the controversy over encryption technology that, in recent months, has pitted top national-security officials against the CEOs of Silicon Valley’s biggest tech firms. "There's some information on you we might not be getting. We'd like to get that."
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Security researcher Sean Cassidy has developed a fairly trivial attack on the LastPass password management service that allows attackers an easy method for collecting the victim's master password. I keep all my passwords safe in here *tries to point to head, but misses*
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Wikipedia, the online encyclopedia that anyone edit turned 15. Though I was tempted to edit the article to say it turned 14.
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Amazon raised a lot of eyebrows last year when it announced that it was planning to start delivering packages by automated drones. The number of avian deaths are well within the acceptable projected margins.
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It not the bird deaths that matter unless they're endangered or protected, like eagles.
Its the endangered Indiana bat... kill one of those, based on extrapolated data, and you will have your delivery times curtailed....
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If you own a system with an Intel 6th generation Core processor—more memorably known as Skylake—and run Windows 7 or Windows 8.1, you'll have to think about upgrading to Windows 10 within the next 18 months. You are a slave, Neo. Like everyone else you were born into bondage. Into a prison that you cannot taste or see or touch.
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