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honey the codewitch2-Nov-22 7:38
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Absolutely. I don't interview for work anymore - I can't because panic attacks tend to overshadow any potential strengths I can bring to the table as a prospective worker, but I used to do quite well at it before my anxiety trouble.

So with that caveat, when I used to interview, I learned sometime around 2005? or so not to "dress up" for interviews.

Part of it is when I look like me, let's just say I get noticed a lot, for better or worse. I'm apparently "different"

But I can play "normal" on TV. I can dress in business formal and hide most of my eccentricities for an hour.

But then I'm stuck with the guy who is my supervisor who couldn't deal with me as I am, because I left him the wrong impression of who *I* am.

Now, I knew this guy would probably take issue with me - I worked that out at the interview. I'm genderweird, and I know how that impacts some people. I wasn't born in space.

But I wanted to work for the company, so I didn't punt it. I went ahead and aced it.

That was a big mistake. Huge. I've never been in an environment where someone's personal hangups so overshadowed their ability to work with someone different than they are.

I was escorted out of that job. That's how much he didn't like me. After he got the project he hired me for.

Never again. It's not worth it.

If I get a bad initial read on someone I'm going to work with, I walk away. The interview (such as there is one) is the place for that.
To err is human. Fortune favors the monsters.


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