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Use of nicknames vary greatly from one culture / country to another. Here in Norway 99% of the population are called by their 'real' names - to the degree that Bill Bryson (yes, yet another Bryson quote!) tells in "Neither here nor there":

"I had had huge difficulty persuading the staff at the Kredittkassen Bank on Karl Johans Gate to cash sufficient traveller's checques to pay the extortionate 1,200 kroner bus fare - they simply could not made to grasp that the William McGuire Bryson on my passport and the Bill Bryson on my traveller's cheques were both me"


I've seen it from the other side as well: Don't expect every Norwegian to have a middle name. Today, it is seen more often, but in my generation, I hardly know of anyone with a middle name. I wanted some information from a USA web site that required me to create a user, asking for my real name, and they insisted on a "middle initial". American forms for specifying names almost invariably has a field for the middle initial, but you may leave it open. Not on this website, it insisted on an alphabetic character, A-Z. Space, hyphen or other punctuation marks were not accepted, you had to reveal your middle initial. Of course you have one - everybody have a middle initial! Sure, I don't think I've ever met anyone from the USA without a middle initial.

We do use double first names: My best buddy in childhood was named Per Erik, one of my current friends is named Per-Kristian, my father was named Torleif (Tor Leif, but as one, unhyphenated word). The double name is always used in full: If you asked me when I was ten if I knew of any 'Per', Per Erik would never occur to me. Per-Kristian is not some 'Per' that I know today. If you suggest that my father was named Tor, I would protest; that is simply wrong.

In my parents' generation, it was more common to have a double, unhyphenated first name, but use only one of them in everyday life. I knew my mother's other first name, but didn't know until several years after moving out from my parents' that my father had a another first name! They would never indicate the initial letter of the other first name as a "middle initial" - the other name is still a first name, not a middle name! The same goes for lots of other people of that generation that I know.

I guess that one reason why we rarely use nicknames is that the major part of Norwegian first names are short, 1 or 2 syllables. All the 4-syllable names I can think of are really two concatenated names. Most, but not all, 3-syllable names are also concatenations of two names, a single-syllable one and a 2-syllable one. So we don't have any need for shortening down the names!
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