In body section you have to set
<a href="http://www.yoursite.com/yourpage.aspx?uid=abc101"></a>
I am talking about email body where you have to set this.
When user click this link this link will take to user to yourpage.aspx with userid and you have to get the valude from query strig.
Dim getval As String = Request.QueryString("uid").ToString()
now you do like
Dim cmd as new sqlcommand("Select * from User where userid='"& getval &"'",conn)
If con.State = ConnectionState.Closed Then
con.Open()
End If
Dim dr As SqlDataReader
dr = cmd.ExecuteReader
GridView1.DataSource = dr
GridView1.DataBind()
con.Close()