Assigning Selected Item in Silverlight Datagrid

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C#

Silverlight

I am loading a datgrid from a WCF service.

A button is located in each row which rotates storyboards and allows the selected record to be edited.

Once the user is finished editing the record, they save their changes and return to the grid.

The grid must be reloaded in order to show that updated values the user just saved.

I need a way to "highlight" the row they just edited or to save the view (ordering and grouping by) the user just set prior to editing.

Any thoughts on this are welcome...

Right now my thought is to grab what the edited record is "grouped by" and have that group expanded and all other groups collapsed. I am, however, getting some wonky behaviors when I try and do this - it seems to always want to expand the first record (alphabetically).