After much investigation, i concluded that its not the update panels that are causing this problem, cause i removed the update panels and i still have this problem.
What i want to do is, i have two tabs on a page.
one tab is for my records and my other tab is for my deleted records.
So what i want to achieve is, if someone deletes a row from the first tab it should then show on my second tab cause its a deleted row.
So the way i am doing this now does not seem to work, in my rowDeleted event i have a grid.databind() to my second tabs gridview. but this does not seem to be updating the gridview in the second tab,
Does anyone perhaps know why ?