Refer to below link
ASP.NET AJAX Calendar Extender – Tips and Tricks
The code you want is stated in that article as follows:
<head runat="server">
<title>Calendar Extender</title>
<script type="text/javascript">
function checkDate(sender,args)
{
if (sender._selectedDate > new Date())
{
alert("You cannot select a day earlier than today!");
sender._selectedDate = new Date();
sender._textbox.set_Value(sender._selectedDate.format(sender._format))
}
}
</script>
</head>
Call the code:
<form id="form1" runat="server">
<asp:scriptmanager id="ScriptManager1" runat="server" xmlns:asp="#unknown" />
<div>
<asp:textbox id="TextBox1" runat="server" xmlns:asp="#unknown"></asp:textbox>
<cc1:calendarextender id="CalendarExtender1" xmlns:cc1="#unknown">
runat="server" OnClientDateSelectionChanged="checkDate" TargetControlID="TextBox1" />
</cc1:calendarextender></div>
</form>
Also you can find one more example on this link
Disable dates in Ajax CalendarExtender