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Great idea, except...
The alleged cheated partner has to get permission by both the alleged cheating partner and his/hers alleged side-partner or else it isn't GDPA compliant and any evidence gathered will not be usable in court.
However, asking for permission may warn the partner that something might be up.
Of course if the partner and the side-partner are both pretty chill they'd give permission and this mattress will be great.
I feel your pain and have had to suffer much of it myself. What really pisses me off about their updates is I have closed my laptop's lid for the evening and come back to find it running. WTFF? This laptop has a GPU in it and relies on the gaps between the keys to cool itself so since the lid was closed it was very, very hot. I was absolutely livid and ready to punch one of those dimwitted dumbasses in Redmond. Now I always turn off the wi-fi before I close the lid and I haven't that nonsense happen again.
While I understand the predicament of having to deal with the full spectrum of users who know nothing about computers all the way to being experts but they could allow a much wider range of options with the ability to easily return to the defaults. This is what I have to do in my software and it's really not that hard. Especially when you have a batallion of programmers under your command.
"They have a consciousness, they have a life, they have a soul! Damn you! Let the rabbits wear glasses! Save our brothers! Can I get an amen?"