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Slacker0072-Dec-14 9:28

2-Dec-14 9:28

Are you a practicing Christian, by chance? Marriage is not always the right (correct) thing to do. It is if you are religious.

edit - a couple can live many happy years together, without being married. Some say that it is easier to be with someone if you are not "married".

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 9:30

2-Dec-14 9:30

Slacker007 wrote:
Are you a practicing Christian, by chance?

Yes.

Slacker007 wrote:
Marriage is not always the right (correct) thing to do.

True.

Slacker007 wrote:
It is if you are religious.

Not always.

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

Slacker0072-Dec-14 9:31

2-Dec-14 9:31

RyanDev wrote:
Not always.

but it influences your life and opinion. Your thoughts are dictated by the church (probably) and not other wise. Could be wrong, just guessing. No harm in that. Smile | :)

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 9:33

2-Dec-14 9:33

I totally agree with a lot of what you're saying, just curious if you're married or not?

Jeremy Falcon

Slacker0072-Dec-14 9:34

2-Dec-14 9:34

Married for almost 20 years and ex practicing Christian.

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 9:37

2-Dec-14 9:37

You gotta admit the irony here is funny. Here you are saying don't get hitched while you're married yourself, and here I am saying it can work and yet I won't get married myself.

Jeremy Falcon

Slacker0072-Dec-14 9:41

2-Dec-14 9:41

When did I say "don't get hitched"?

What I am saying is, is that marriage is not natural and that it requires work. I chose to work at it. If I no longer choose to work at it, then I get divorced.

modified 3-Dec-14 6:56am.

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 9:44

2-Dec-14 9:44

You never said anything good about it (that I've read) to counter balance your stance up until this point. So, it's easy to infer that, right or wrong. That's the inference.

Jeremy Falcon

Slacker0072-Dec-14 9:57

2-Dec-14 9:57

Ah.

You are correct in your "inference". My marriage has had some very rough moments, of which, I almost quit. For whatever reasons, the wife and I are doing great, our children are great, and I "would not" want to be without them.

If we don't chat again, have a good holiday, Jeremy. I mean that.

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 10:14

2-Dec-14 10:14

Slacker007 wrote:
If we don't chat again, have a good holiday, Jeremy. I mean that.

You too man!

Jeremy Falcon

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 9:40

2-Dec-14 9:40

Oh, and I'm not religious either. My entire family is Christian (hypocritical ones though), so I know the influence. More people need to study more religions than the besides the one they grew up in. They'd be a lot wiser. Anyway, kudos for you thinking outside the box.

I am spiritual though, which to me, has nothing to do with formalized religious practices.

Jeremy Falcon

Slacker0072-Dec-14 9:42

2-Dec-14 9:42

Jeremy Falcon wrote:
I am spiritual though, which to me, has nothing to do with formalized religious practices.

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 10:54

2-Dec-14 10:54

Jeremy Falcon wrote:
My entire family is Christian (hypocritical ones though)

To be fair, nearly everyone is hypocritical to some extent. Sniff | :^)

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

Jeremy Falcon2-Dec-14 10:57

2-Dec-14 10:57

Can't argue with that.

Jeremy Falcon

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 9:35

2-Dec-14 9:35

Slacker007 wrote:
but it influences your life and opinion.

I was suggesting that even for religious people marriage is not necessarily always going to be the right things to do.

Slacker007 wrote:
Your thoughts are dictated by the church

No more than yours are by things that surround you. Religion, by definition is just a set of beliefs. It does not have to involve a supreme being. Meaning that we all have religion, a set of beliefs. Yours come from school, your parents, science, books you read, people you know, etc, etc. Mine come from the same exact set plus 1 (my belief in God.)

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

Slacker0072-Dec-14 10:06

2-Dec-14 10:06

Point taken.

PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 9:33

2-Dec-14 9:33

RyanDev wrote:
intelligent beings

think for themselves and make their own choices rather than blindly following the pack.

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 9:36

2-Dec-14 9:36

PIEBALDconsult wrote:
think for themselves and make their own choices rather than blindly following the pack.

Amen.

Although, blindly following my parents when they potty trained me turned out to be a good idea. Laugh | :laugh:

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 9:38

2-Dec-14 9:38

RyanDev wrote:
turned out to be a good idea

For them.

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 9:38

2-Dec-14 9:38

PIEBALDconsult wrote:
For them.

We all won. Big Grin | :-D

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 9:42

2-Dec-14 9:42

But are you now unable to pooh in the woods? Are you able to adjust your behaviour to the circumstances?

ZurdoDev2-Dec-14 9:50

2-Dec-14 9:50

PIEBALDconsult wrote:
But are you now unable to pooh in the woods? Are you able to adjust your behaviour to the circumstances?

With all of these questions I'm afraid you're about to ask for pictures. I think the Lounge has had enough of this topic. Dead | X|

There are only 10 types of people in the world, those who understand binary and those who don't.

M@dHatter2-Dec-14 8:20

M@dHatter

2-Dec-14 8:20

Is your wife's name katrina? Big Grin | :-D

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PIEBALDconsult2-Dec-14 8:25