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Peter Shaw12-Mar-24 2:43
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it's not just MS.

ALL of them are just as bad in some way or another.

About 5 years ago now, my Brother in Law passed suddenly. As I was the only one in the immediate family with any tech skills I was given the task of getting all of his various social media stuff shut down.

NOTE: I said shut down, not even accessed, just closed... gone... no longer needed.

At the time, (Hard to believe now) MS was actually the easiest. Didn't need to get in, but I did, got into One drive backed everything up, requested the account be closed. Job done.

Apple, hard initially, but after a trip to the local Apple store and physical production of the Death Certificate, followed by a call to the support team in Dublin, everything was done for me. They backed up the account, sent us a link to download the backups then closed the accounts.

Google was easy, no involvement needed, it turns out I was easily able to guess the security questions etc, and the back up email was his MS one which I still had access too. so all good...

Facebook..... Holy Heck, was that one something else.

Staff consistently unhelpful, Automated bot processes that didn't work properly, Accusations posted in email directly at myself and the family actively accusing us of attempted fraud.

5 years on, his account is still active, routinely get's flagged by spam bots and everything else, and every time I try to even get in touch with a human operator, I get the exact same message.

"This account has been flagged, you can only make requests to this account via a human operator, before we will assign anyone to the case, you must send us a copy of your death certificate and current ID to prove you have died, we will ONLY discuss matters on this account with the named account holder, including requests to close the account"

Straight up... they are asking my brother to provide his own ID, and his death certificate to prove he died.

We have tried several times over the past years to point out to them "he's dead" what part of "him presenting his own death certificate, doesn't make sense to you", but it just falls on deaf ears.

That and the amount of email his google accounts still receive from social & shopping sites that where told 5 years ago he'd passed and where asked to remove his details, but never did.

I understand wanting to protect folks social media accounts against hackers, but some of the policy's and the ways things are done is just beyond belief.

All we want is the account closed and removed from the internet, his mother particularly wants FB to stop sending her notifications on what's happening on his account, but it all falls on deaf ears.

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