I hardly can believe that this is something else but the open-source product described in the article referenced in my comment to the question, but next time please provide links to what you are talking about.
Then it would be better to do this:
"SourceGrid — Open Source C# Grid Control": Add a Comment or Question — CodeProject.
When you add your question to the discussion, the author will get a notification and a chance to answer your questions.
—SA