i got the answer its an small mistake ,
after a long struggle , i got this , this looks like a funny
thing ,
see the answer one time
"provider =Microsoft.JET.OLEDB.4.0;data source=\\\\10.0.0.3\\share\\testing.mdb");
i had forgot to keep the escape sequences , thats the problem ok
thanku for all ur attenttion ,
thanks a lot