Please dont open new Questions for every step, i already told you what to do, a little google would have easily solved your problem.
You need to UPDATE [...] WHERE ID=[1,2,3,4,5,e.g.]
NOT UPDATE [...] WHERE transactee_id=[1245,4568,e.g.]
If you are having Problems getting your ID from GridView then nobody except yourself can help, because we don't know where your data is from or how it is stored.
If you have your ID shown in your gridview you might be able to get it from there