Don't use SQL server to connect to .SDF file - use an SqlCeConnection and SqlCeCommand instead:
using (SqlCeConnection con = new SqlCeConnection(@"Data Source=C:\Users\griff\Documents\AA Backed Up\My Databases\StandardReplies.sdf"))
{
using (SqlCeCommand cmd = new SqlCeCommand("SELECT * FROM Replies", con))
{
using (SqlCeDataReader reader = cmd.ExecuteReader())
{
while (reader.Read())
{
...
}
}
}
}