Step 1) Do a little research.
Google [
^]is a good start point (i.e.
http://k-scene.net/2012/08/04/source-facebook-xmpp-connection-library/[
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Step 2) Start coding
Step 3) Compile and use the debug to solve little issues
Step 4) When you get a problem you don't know how to solve
but at least you tried it, then come back and ask for something concrete with a snippet of the code giving problems
Sorry if this is not the answer you were looking for. But your question is a bit too wide to be answered at the "Quick" Answers. It is better and you get faster help if you make 10 concrete questions about concrete problems, than a big question about a "how-to guide"
For future questions please read:
What have you tried?[
^]
How to ask a question?[
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as well
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