If I understand your question correctly, you want to access the controls inside a user control from outside.
If this is the case I would strongly advice not to do so. If you need to affect the control behaviour from outside or read information from it, define properties and methods in the control. If you need to receive notifications, define events in the user control.
One good principle when creating user controls is that from outside you should not need to know what the control actually contains or how it works. You just need to have meanings to communicate with it as described above.
Have a look at for example
Creating a Windows Form User Control[
^]. Even though it's VB and rather old it explains the first steps.